Coherence

We all know someone that we admire and at the same time dislike because of the way they act and say. It may impact how they live their lives as they say they do, and that makes us question our lack of commitment to our own beliefs. 

Even Hollywood has great movies that show us great stories of people who decided to live according to their beliefs. What is their secret? Coherence. 

But what does it mean to be coherent? Well, it means to live according to what we think is right and do it in every circumstance. Believing the right thing according to religion, family values, personal philosophy, justice, etc. 

This implies compromise and effort to apply our universal values into each circumstance, that is to question ourselves about what is happening and what we need to do. The problem is that nowadays we prefer that someone else are to blame: society, friends or the circumstances. We may not want to think about the choices we are about to make, but whatever we choose, we are to blame.  

Every action is a stand-in our lives, what we do matters. Being coherent is to taking responsibility to make the choices that are according to our principles.